A friend once told me that MIT, unlike other colleges such as Harvard, sets its students up to be accepting of failure. Whether intentional or not, classes are always difficult and the workload is very high. It is extremely difficult to achieve straight A’s throughout your entire MIT career, and to some, a B is failure. Yet even after the failure, MIT asks you to perform just as well or better on the next test, problem set, or final. I think MIT’s reason for doing this is neither to produce better engineers – in the sense of more capable – or to bring students down to earth – which it tends to do anyway – but to force students to learn to get right back into the fray when failure strikes. I think the biggest lesson learned from the ‘forced failure’ experience here is to go down kicking and come back up with the past behind you. Lessons from the failure are remembered, but not dwelt upon. You don’t get a chance to sit down and take a break. This is an extremely useful habit to foster, especially since many students are used to constant success they experienced in grade school before they came to MIT. In my case, grade school did not offer a laminar stream of success. Instead, there was some turbulence along the way that forced me to learn to fight on after failure a bit early.
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